We tend to think of sexual orientation as a spectrum from gay to straight. Many people are familiar with the Kinsey Scale, for example. While these perspectives have been liberating to many, another spectrum exists entirely: the asexuality—or ace—spectrum. People …
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How to Squirt
ANONYMOUS ASKS:
How the heck do I squirt?
Anonymous:
One of my favorite takeaways from Emily Nagoski’s Come As You Are is the idea of “all the same parts, organized differently.” Basically, regardless of your biological sex and tingly bits, …
Winter Sex Ideas
It’s that time of year where winter feels like it just won’t end. The days are noticeably longer, but still more dark than light. Having to go outside still requires layering on multiple pieces of outerwear, and really all you …
All About Anal Beads: What are They, How to Use Them, + Our Favourites
What’s the point of anal beads? It’s not uncommon for anal toys to be a mystery to people. Part of this comes from the vast misunderstandings about how the butt and anal play work. Read on to learn everything you …
Here’s How the Four Phases of the Menstrual Cycle May Affect Your Libido
Have you ever noticed that, along with your energy and mood, your libido changes throughout your menstrual cycle? I remember discovering this phenomenon in college, one of those profound, “oh it’s not just me?!” moments.
Thanks to the lack of medically …
Everything You Need to Know About Prostate Play and Health
Anal August may be over, but September ushers in a new butt-adjacent theme month: Prostate Health Month (and Prostate Cancer Awareness). In honor of that, here’s everything you need to know about prostate play and health.
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…Your Guide to Sexy Role Play & How to Do It Without Feeling Silly
This time of year has dressing up on everyone’s mind. Whether you love it or hate it, you can’t deny that Halloween is the perfect opportunity to ditch the constraints of your identity and assume someone else’s. But why limit it …
The Joy of Receiving: How to Enjoy Oral Sex
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I’ve never allowed my partner to go down on me but I’d love to let him do that on his birthday. I need your help on what to do before and after, and how to enjoy receiving oral …
15 Sensual Self-Care Activities that Don’t Cost a Thing
Self-care is more than bubble baths and face masks. Though we love those options, self-care is also a way to reckon with and heal ourselves and our history. Read on for everything you need to know about sensual self-care including 15 …