PbK Top 10 Sex Toys List

Choosing a sex toy can be overwhelming – there are so many options! Plus, every body is different. What worked for your sibling, co-worker, or bestie may or may not be the right toy for you. However, learning about what others love (and hate) in their toys helps you find the perfect toy for you. To that end, here are my top 10 sex toys plus why I love them. These are the goodies I reach for again and again – they aren’t necessarily the newest or the fanciest, but they work for me, my body, & my relationship (because they aren’t all just for me). Which is what really counts!

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Passion by Kait’s Top 10 Sex Toys

Want to #treatyoself to one of the goodies listed or buy something else??? Simply click on the name of each product to shop!

jimmyjane_contour_m_ceramic_massage_stone__25564-1354725800-1280-1280AfterGlow Candle & Contour M Massager

Light the candle to set the mood and get your room smelling sexy. When it’s burned down, blow it out, pour it on, and rub it in with the massager. The “wax” isn’t wax but soybean oil so it won’t burn or leave residue on your skin, but it does make for the perfect sexy massage. Bonus: you can heat the stone up or cool it down to spice things up even more.



Arousal Oil

1-3 drops on the clitoris helps you get in the mood more quickly and have stronger, easier, more frequent orgasms. I <3 this one in particular because it uses cinnamon oil instead of menthol (which often burns) and comes in three different levels. Start with the Lite or Original and only try the Ultra if you’re regularly using 3 drops of the Original. Perfect for those nights when they’re in the mood and you aren’t ready yet or when you only have a few minutes to get it done (before work or the kids or whatever).




Lube prevents small tears in the vagina or anus and makes sex feel more yummy. Silicone lube lasts forevah and this is the only one that won’t stain your sheets or leave a weird film on your skin. Use it for intercourse, handies, or in the shower. Just don’t use it with silicone toys – they’ll dissolve each other and you’ll be sad (and so will I).

Need lube to use with your favorite silicon sex toy? My favorite is Sliquid Organic.





The perfect beginner’s toy. Small, powerful, and easy to use – there’s one button and a low battery indicator. Plus it’s size lets you stimulate your clitoris and vaginal opening at the same time. You can also use it on the labia, nipples, scrotum, penis, perineum (t’aint), or anywhere you want an extra stimulation.


The harder you squeeze, the more it vibrates! It’s perfect if you like being in complete control of what’s happening down there. Oh – and you can set and record patterns (or have your sweetie surprise you with something). It’s totally ok if that “pattern” is the toy’s max speed.





The perfect G-spot toy for beginners & G-spot experts alike! If you aren’t sure where exactly your spot is, the Uma’s broad, round tip will help you find it AND figure out which type of sensation works best for you. And if you know? Said tip lets you experiment with tons of different sensations, including a good amount of pressure. Bonus! The curve on this is perfect for clitoral stimulation as well and the toy is slim enough to fit between you during intercourse.

Iconic Wand

A fabulous all-over body massager. Easy to use and hold with powerful vibrations. When you’re ready for  more power or looking for less direct clitoral stimulation AND something that’s versatile, this is your friend.






Pleasure Mate Collection

Get the strongest bullet-style vibe, a g-spot toy, and a butt-plug that can also be used as a hands-free vaginal vibrator. In one set.





3D Penis Masturbation Sleeve

A sleeve that looks like a piece of art? Um yes please. Use it to masturbate your sweetie or tuck it into their suitcase when they travel for work. Expert tip: right before they climax, hold the sleeve around the base of the penis with one hand and tug on the other end of the sleeve, near the tip, with the other. It’ll create a little suction that makes their orgasm amazing. And don’t forget the (water-based) lube.




Bubble Love

Love taking baths? Was your first “toy” the shower head? The Bubble Love attaches to the floor of your tub and streams water onto your tingly bits. Hands-free vibrations and the ultimate relaxation? Win-win.



Disclaimer: I’m a proud affiliate for these products. If you decide to purchase any of these sexy goodies, I may receive a commission – it doesn’t cost you extra and if I didn’t love it, I wouldn’t share it with you! Thanks for supporting #freedominpleasure!