When it comes to having a lifetime of better sex, most of the advice tells you to add new, sexy, fun things to your routine. Variety keeps things exciting, but it doesn’t take long before you get comfortable and …
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How to Get in the Mood—11 Ways to Get Turned on Fast
Sex, like life, doesn’t always go as planned. Sometimes you never get started, sometimes you don’t feel satisfied, and sometimes you get distracted halfway through and lose your wood. Other times, things like different sex drives, lack of time, and stress …
Mindful Sex Techniques
So many of us crave deeper connections and more presence in all aspects of our lives, especially our sex life. Like building desire, getting out of your head and being present during sex starts long before sexy time. It’s …
How to Fight Fairly in a Relationship: 11 Fair Fighting Rules
This list of fair fighting rules, is an excerpt from The PbK Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, a 75-page workbook packed with the exact tools that have helped hundreds—and will help you—have more CONFIDENCE, CONNECTION, and PLEASURE …
Homophobia, Racism, Fatphobia, & Other Intimacy Barriers
Fuck the shoulds. This adage is at the core of what we do here at PbK. Its a more crass version of “find freedom in pleasure” but both share the same sentiment regarding any intimacy barriers:
You’re the only
…13 Relationship Agreements for More Pleasure
This article about relationship agreements, is an excerpt from The PbK Guide to Getting the Sex You Want, a 75-page workbook packed with the exact tools that have helped hundreds—and will help you—have more CONFIDENCE, CONNECTION, and PLEASURE in …
21 Intimate Ideas for Couples to Instantly Reconnect
Affection is one of three key components to having an intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex life that lasts. But your beautifully full life doesn’t always leave you a ton of time for your sex life and relationship, no matter …
Relationship and Sex Goals for the New Year
Transitions of any kind—whether it’s the start of a year or the start of a job—are a great opportunity to reflect. Where have you been? Where do you want to go? What do you need to get there? Unfortunately, the …
Appreciate Your Partner for a Stronger Relationship
One of the best “side effects” of working as a sex and relationship educator is the regular opportunity to reflect on my relationship. As my clients share their sex and relationship struggles, I’m given the gift of looking at my own relationship …