Doggy Style Tips: 8 Ways to Make Doggy Position Hotter

Most advice about sex positions has you doing some sort of acrobatics: balancing on one leg or your head or having your sweetie lift you up. For a lot of people this approach is neither fun nor accessible. (Of course, if you love it, get on with your bad self!) There’s good news: small tweaks can make a BIG difference in your enjoyment of and ability to experience your favourite positions. Here are eight doggy style tips to make this position work better for you.

What is doggy style?

Doggy style traditionally means the receiving partner is on all fours while the penetrating partner enters them—vaginally, anally, or both—from behind. We classify any rear entry position as falling under the doggy style umbrella. This means you can be standing, kneeling, laying on your stomach, or somewhere in between.

Doggy Style Tips

Change up where you do it

From bathroom quickies to a very welcoming welcome home, doggy style lets you do it in tight spaces with minimal fuss. Find a wall, door or piece of furniture to lean on, scoot your pants down or hike your skirt up, and have fun. Some fun examples:

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Play with other feel-good areas

In doggy style, the penetrating partner has easy access to the whole body of their receiving partner. Use hands, sex toys, and your mouth to stimulate their favourite areas. Here are some ideas to get you started:

Not sure which parts of your body you love being touched the most? Try this.

Enjoy the g-Spot Stimulation

For people with vulvas, doggy style naturally lends to g-spot stimulation. Your partner’s penis or dildo is more likely to rub against that area (because: geometry) which is a win for you.

Of course, whether this position works for g-spot penetration depends on a lot of factors: the size of the penis, how much pressure you need on your G-spot to experience orgasm, and whether G-spot stimulation even feels good to you.

Read more: How to Find the G-Spot

Embrace the Vulnerability of the position

There’s something about sticking your bum up and out and giving away some control that either gets you going or makes you run away screaming. Sex is an intimate act to begin with and doing it doggy style amplifies that further. There’s a loss of control. You’re fully on display. There isn’t necessarily eye contact. And there’s something gritty, raw, and animalistic about it all. That’s kind of what makes it so hot…but also so intimidating.

Arch your back for deeper penetration

Arching your back changes the position of your hips and allows for deeper penetration. If that’s what you’re after, enjoy!

Move your hips for maximum pleasure

Moving your hips will take doggy style to a whole new level. Play around with what feels good: moving side-to-side, in small circles, up and down, or back to meet your honey’s thrusts. You’ll know you’ve found what works for you when you’re oh-so-surprised by new feel-good spots. Also- combining this with clitoral or penis stimulation may just turn you into a pile of jelly. You’re welcome.

Play with the booty

Its right there so it may as well get some attention!

Spanking is certainly possible. Groping and massaging are great too. You might also enjoy some external anal stimulation. We recommend one of our favourite external vibes for this…just don’t forget to wash it thoroughly before using it on your clit again. There’s also penetration with fingers, anal beads, butt plugs, or any of many size dildos.

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If doggy style hurts, try these changes

Because doggy style allows for deeper penetration, it can sometimes hurt the receiving partner. If they’re a vulva owner, its likely the penetrating partner is hitting the cervix.

There are several things you can do to prevent this.

  1. Make sure the receiving partner is fully aroused. For most people this means 20-30 minutes of foreplay. This allows for vaginal tenting—the process by which the vagina gets longer and wider—to occur.
  2. Use lube. Friction is not your friend here. You can click here to see all our favourite lubes.
  3. Use shorter thrusts. As a bonus, this also increases the likelihood of hitting the g-spot.
  4. Use a bumper. Bumpers like these allow you to customize the depth of penetration. As a bonus, if the penetrating partner has a penis, they’re still getting stimulated from the sheath itself. Don’t forget the lube.

Doggy style isn’t for everyone

Nothing in sex is! If you read through these doggy style tips and think “Nope, that’s still not for me!” that’s perfectly ok. Your sex life has to work for you and your partner(s) and no one else. Fuck the shoulds.

The right way to do doggy position

There are as many different ways to do doggy style as there are people to do it. Ok that may be an exaggeration but my point is- you’ve got to do it in a way that feels amazing for you. Finding the way that works for you, your body, and your partner lets you have the hottest, most fulfilling, and most pleasurable doggy style sex.

16 thoughts on “Doggy Style Tips: 8 Ways to Make Doggy Position Hotter

  1. Doggy style is my favourite love it when it goes in tip over the side of the bed bum high in the air

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