Mutual masturbation is one of the most common, sexy time activities I suggest to my intimacy coaching clients. Usually, they aren’t quite sure what I mean. And when I explain, the idea usually shocks them!
Most people think masturbating is something you only do on your own.
I’m here to tell you that simply isn’t true!
Yes, self-pleasure is a fabulous solo activity — it’s one of my self-care go-tos! For many, though, it remains a solo act for different reasons.
Maybe you don’t want anyone to see how you touch yourself. Or you think masturbating is something to tide you over when your partner travels or as a tool to deal with different sex drives in your relationship.
Regardless, mutual masturbation sounds scary!
Why try what can be an intimidating and vulnerable activity? Is it really worth revealing that you hump a pillow or twist your body just so or make silly faces?