You have an amazing relationship.
You’ve been together for a while but you still make each other laugh, challenge each other, and aren’t afraid to debate everything from politics to the latest episode of Housewives. If you described your perfect relationship, it’d look very much like yours.
Except for your sex life.
It’s the only thing that’s really a problem area. Maybe it’s been that way for a long time. Or maybe it’s just recently gotten a little routine (ok, boring).
You feel frustrated, helpless, and stressed.
You aren’t usually the type of person to see a problem and not do anything about it. You think to yourself, “I’m a grown up. I can talk to my partner about things that upset me, what I want, and what I need!”
When it comes to sex, you can’t communicate what you want.
Maybe you feel alone, like there’s no one else struggling with this. You should know more about this stuff by now…or at least be able to talk to your girlfriends about it without getting totally giggly.
Maybe you know that struggling to keep the spark alive is a common problem. You know that there are things you can do to get it back…but nothing comes to mind.
Maybe you have tons of info but don’t know what to do with it. You’ve tried a Cosmo tip (or ten), one of those sex books, and a few toys, but they didn’t work as promised.
Regardless, you’re at a loss.
You don’t know what concrete steps you can take to make your sex life better.
You wish that…
…you wanted sex more. Once you get started it’s great, but you need to find a way to get the ball rolling. You want to want it.
…there was more variety. Nothing too kinky but more than your current three moves. Think: vanilla with a dash of cayenne. Sex that’s more than so-so.
…there were no more question marks. You don’t know what your next steps are, never mind how to tell your partner. You’re ready to share your desires openly.
…you had practical tips in terms of what to try. No acrobatics, twisting yourself into a pretzel, or spending hours a day on one activity. You want real tips for real life.
…you could flirt like you were 15 for the rest of your life. You know couples like that and want to be one of them. You never want to lose the fun.
Having a more intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex life is possible.
No matter how long you’ve been together.
When I met my honey as teens on a cruise, no one expected us to last.
Over 11 years later – after college, study abroad, grad school, unemployment, an eating disorder, neuromuscular issues, and almost a decade of long-distance love – we’re still finding tons of ways to keep the spark alive.
And I want to share those with YOU.
I’ll help you understand where your libido went and how to get your desire back.
I’ll teach you how to figure out what you want and how to ask for it.
I’ll show you which sex actions, ideas, an dproducts are right for you & your relationship.
Wouldn’t it be amazing to (re)create an
energizing, adventurous, and satisfying sex life?
Kait is wonderful! Very knowledgeable and she made me feel super comfortable.
As a result of this program, you’ll…
- Want to have sex more
- Have more frequent and adventurous sex
- Know exactly how to spice things up
- Feel closer and more connected to your partner
- Rush less and enjoy sex more
- Feel happier and more confident
The Get Your Spark Back package includes:
So You Think You’ve Tried It All checklist
These questions tell me how your sex life has gotten a little ho-hum and what you’ve tried to do to change it, if anything. You tell me what’s worked, what hasn’t, and what you want to try. When we get started, we’ll be able to jump right into (re)creating an intimate and exciting sex life. No wasting even one moment chatting about something that isn’t going to work for you.
Sexual Clarity Call: This 60-minute call is your time to talk openly about what’s working and what’s not and to get real advice and input from someone who’s heard it all…minus the judgy BS. You’ll understand exactly why you aren’t getting what you want in the bedroom and how to change that to have more frequent and enjoyable sex. You’ll leave this first session with a personalized Spark Plan to figure out and ask for what you want.
Spark Troubleshooting Sessions (3): You put your Spark Plan into action, now what?! Every few weeks we review what you tried, what worked, and what you’re struggling with. With these concrete next steps, you know what to change (and not change) to have more intimacy, adventure, and satisfaction in the bedroom. Plus you have access to the mini resource library that’s me for more new ideas about what turns you on and gets you there. By the end of these sessions, you’ll have the confidence and tools you need for an even more pleasurable and fulfilling sex life.
Personalized Spark Plan
Forget the “best sex position ever”! Instead, you know exactly which sexy tips, exercises, and toys are right for your relationship and how to introduce them in the bedroom, so you’ll want to have sex and enjoy it again. When you’re this confident, having fun and exciting sex is a given.
Sexy Conversation Starter Kit
Talking to your partner about sex doesn’t have to be so hard! This kit gives you everything you need to share your sexual desires in a way that feels real, fun, and easy. You get the exact words to say plus the couple’s version of the So You Think You’ve Tried It All checklist.
Ready to get the spark back in your bedroom?
Here’s how to get started:
Step 1: Click here to sign up.
Step 2: I’ll send you a Welcome email, including a link to the So You Think You’ve Tried It All Checklist and to schedule your first Sexual Clarity Call. Complete it before we have our first coaching call.
Step 3: We get started! I’ll call you at the time you chose for your Sexual Clarity Call.
Have questions? Email me.
What Others are Saying
I finally have the courage to speak up about what I like and don’t!
Before our sessions, I was nervous that I wouldn’t feel comfortable sharing such intimate things. But Kait is super easy to dish to and makes the process painless. It’s like talking to a friend…but a really nice, non-judgy one!
The tips Kait gave me to work through my struggles boosted my sexual confidence and helped my husband and I get out of a rut. I feel less alone, less shameful, and more liberated.
I feel really enlightened, empowered, and excited.
Kait impressed me from the very first email interaction. She is thorough, respectful, patient, knowledgeable, honest, down-to-earth, and fun.
I never felt pressured or uncomfortable. In fact, I had a blast! I would definitely recommend Kait.
I feel more enlightened and confident about my sex life.
Kait did an amazing job answering ALL my questions and providing a customized session that was informative and enjoyable. She recommended not just products but also actions and ideas to enhance my sex life. I most enjoyed her advice on communicating what I want and need to my partner.
I’d recommend Kait to any woman looking to have an absolute blast while learning from an extremely professional, intelligent, and warm woman.