Affection is one of three key components to having an intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex life that lasts. But your beautifully full life doesn’t always leave you a ton of time for your sex life and relationship, no matter …
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Are you having enough sex or not?
There’s one thing every one of my clients and every potential client has in common: they think they are not having enough sex. Sometimes they tell me they’re having sex several times each week. Other times, that number drops to …
Adventurous Date Ideas
Curiosity and exploration are the foundation of an intimate, exciting, & fulfilling sex life that lasts. Broadly, that means finding ways to add newness to your relationship and sexy times, like these adventurous date ideas. Practically, it means always asking, “What else?!” …
Why Use a Cock Ring + Our Faves
In 10+ years of selling sex toys, cock or penis rings are among the most popular picks. Folx of all genders, sexualities, and relationship structures love this versatile toy! Here’s more about why use a cock ring, how to …
What is Real Sex?
Close your eyes for a moment, and think back to one of your favorite, most pleasurable sexy times/sex experiences. When and where was it? What else was going on in your life? How were you feeling, physically and emotionally? Were …
How to Last Longer During Sex – or Help Them To
At every workshop I’ve taught over the last decade, someone has asked a version of the question, “What do I do if my partner comes too quickly?” It’s usually paired with other questions about helping their partner last longer and …
Benefits of Getting Off Birth Control
A lot of the information out there around the benefits of getting off birth control fall into one of two categories. People who are pro-hormonal contraceptives tend to dismiss personal stories about birth control side effects and their impact on …
How to Use Kegel Balls
Ever since 50 Shades was released, people have questions about “those little silver balls.” Unfortunately, society has taken the extensive topic of pelvic health and oversimplified it into a cure-all: kegel exercises. Of course, there’s way more to the story. …
14 Winter Date Ideas
Winter has come, and with it, the desire to hibernate. By this time in the season, the novelty of cozy sweaters and freshly fallen snow gives way to cabin fever and longing to go outside without first spending 10 minutes …