There are a lot of articles purporting they have the secret for how to have good sex. Usually it’s some position or toy that promises instant arousal and mind-blowing orgasms.
This is not one of those articles.
In fact, if you’re looking for a quick fix to have more intimate, exciting, and fulfilling sex, you may want to stop reading now.
If you’re still with me, first know that those other articles aren’t wrong. Trying new positions, techniques, and toys adds adventure and newness to your sex life. They help you figure out what turns you on and what you don’t like. That’s all important—but it isn’t the whole story, or even the most important part.