Massage is the perfect sex act. It helps you create the right context, set the mood, connect with your beau, and get turned on. Plus, it makes experiencing orgasm easier by activating your parasympathetic (“rest and …
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Want to Increase Your Sexual Satisfaction? Stop Doing This
Recently I was asked, “How do you avoid comparing your sex life with others’ (especially friends’)?” I appreciated this question so much as someone who struggled with professional jealousy. Just like that impacted my enjoyment of PbK, so …
How to Talk to Your Partner About Sex
When someone comes to us with a sex concern, our first question is whether they’ve talked to their partner about the issue. Most of the time, the answer is no. We sex educators and therapists are notorious for saying, …
How to Give a Better Blow Job: 8 BJ Tips
When the beau and I started dating, I refused to go down on him. I thought it was gross and degrading, so I didn’t do it. Over a decade later, and Oral Pleasure for Penises is my most popular workshop while …
How to Find the G-Spot: G-Spot Location and How to Guide Your Partner to It
Finding the g-spot can be a source of both great pleasure and disappointment. It incorporates sexual and communication skills as well as asks you to practice creating the right context.
Everyone wants to find it, hoping it’s the magic key …
How to Have—and Keep Having— Vaginal Orgasms
“How do I have vaginal orgasms and how to keep getting them?” In my near decade as a sex educator, this is one of the most common questions I hear from people with vulvas. Some want to experience all their …
What No One Tells You About How to Have Good Sex
There are a lot of articles purporting they have the secret for how to have good sex. Usually its the “right” sex position, a stronger toy, or the perfect-for-you stroke that promises instant arousal and mind-blowing orgasms.
This is not …
This is How to Orgasm During Sex
One of the most common questions we hear from cis women is, “how do I orgasm during sex?” We’ve been taught that climaxing with a partner – heck coming at the same time as a partner – is the norm …
How to Introduce Sex Toys into Your Relationship
How do I introduce sex toys into my relationship? My partner is concerned they’ll replace him or “ruin” me!
This is, hands down, the most common question we get about sex toys.
Most objections are rooted in myths about …